yesterday, hubby got the news that his best buddy sejak kecil warded since last wednesday. he got dengue. so, after asar prayer, all of us went to sjmc. teruk juga kawan dia, blood count very low.
right after the visit we dropped by at subang parade, rumah no. 2 hehehe. makan kat dave's deli... yum yum yum... me & hubby used to dine in kat dave's deli masa zaman berdua je dulu. the day before masa hantar fahmi to his tumble tots class, we had a quick lunch at 2.45pm... well it was a lunch for me coz i didn't had any yesterday even it was only a piece of shepherd's pie that i shared with fahmi. so, hubby pun teringin nak makan pie lagi, but it was out of stock yesterday. me and hubby had this combo pasta meal... ughhh i almost forgot how tasty and yummy the meal was. apparently, fahmi and yaya both can adapt to their parents appetite...
solat maghrib kat subang parade. hubby commented that how come we never discover that subang parade pun ada surau? if it wasn't because we enrolled fahmi to tumble tots classes we would never found the surau... it was facing the tumble tots entrance!
after maghrib prayer, i quickly ushered yaya out. hubby kata buat apa nak balik cepat-cepat. ehh... it really doesn't sound like hubby. he usually nak balik cepat-cepat sampai i nak window shopping pun tak best. i felt like going inside the mph bookstore... i've wanted to buy this book by dr miriam stoppard about children development... well some people may say that isn't it quite too late for me to buy the book since i already have two growing up child. well, isn't that just the right excuse for me to get the book? i'm not an expert, i'm still in the learning stages.
while i was browsing and scanning every books, hubby who was at that time carrying yaya quickly run for me and told me that i've just missed listening to yaya counting satu to sepuluh!!! uhhh i couldn't trust my ear so i ask who? fahmi ke? hubby said no it was yaya yang mengira satu dua tiga. uhhh would love to hear her counting again. been teaching her to count both in english and malay... she had never manage to finish counting and sometimes she would mix the satu, dua, tiga, empat, with five, enam, nine and never got to finish sampai sepuluh pun. but yesterday, hubby said she did it! when we tried to coerce her to count again... she started with satu dua tiga and mix with four five six... and that's all.
what about fahmi? hmmm dah penat ajar... bukan dia tak tau mengira but budak bulat ni jenis berat mulut. i dunno but i think boys are like that (bukan semua lah). so now, with yaya dah pandai mengira i hope that fahmi would feel tercabar skit, dia memang selalu macam tu, kalau yaya dah pandai buat something then only he will start doing it.
rasa-rasanya macam dah kena hantar yaya pegi class je ;)
I never thought that it's going to be so difficult to plan for a birthday party.
We just had fahmi's party in january... and now another party coming april, so soon...uhh.
Segan pulak dengan negihbour sumer... eheh. Last year in october we had makan-makan masa hari raya for our neighbour, followed by fahmi's birthday hi tea... now yaya's dinner party.
Hubby said tak yah buat party besar-besar, masak sendiri jer... but for me, i feel like doing something different this time... a bbq dinner. So, i went surfing on the net looking for caterer who can provide western/bbq menu and found www.caterer.com.my . The menu nampak sedap, presentation pun menarik, price? RM20 per head... not bad. But... the minimum order is 100pax... alamak! Macam mana ni... 100pax mana muat nak letak kat umah. Where got space? So, had to search again and i finally went to www.edenzil.com website. Not much info given so i had to called the number displayed. After waiting for 2 days, finally i got their quotation and menu list today. They accept minimum order for 50pax but... (mesti ada but) uhuhhh... the rate is RM28 per head. Sengih jelah...
If we go for this caterer, definitely we have to standby a budget around RM2k. That's consider a lot for a birthday party... adik beradik aku mesti terjegil biji mata kalau tau... tu belum my mum lagi. Tu lah hubby kata dah style macam orang loaded lah plak...
Now, wait and see lah... jadi ke tak buat bbq dinner party nih. For yaya... why not?
Assalamualaikum...
This is my first entry, so I named it Pilot. Macam drama bersiri omputih, the first siri on air selalunya mesti title:pilot :).
Actually, this isn't my first blog. I created one 6 months ago, but I was so busy with work, my kids, had a surgery to remove my tonsils in December bla... bla... bla... akhirnya i forgot the password to enter my own blog. That's me... senang lupa anything about myself even my own ID. Itulah... lama sangat jadik seketari... cheh alasan!
Luckily malam ni both my little terror tido awal. Fahmi tak sempat dinner pun dah tergolek atas sofa, after crying & meragam nak daddy sendukkan nasi. Daddy mana ada sayang, daddy dah pi surau. Yaya sempatlah sepah-sepahkan meja dengan nasi sambil temankan mama makan. Lebih banyak nasi yang tumpah dari masuk ke mulut dia. Tak sempat-sempat mama cuci mulut dah minta nak menyusu. After a while menyusu, terus doze off.
I got home quite late malam ni, almost 8pm, hubby and fahmi dah ke surau solat maghrib, leaving yaya with bibik at home. I quickly go up to my room, solat dulu followed by mandi. Yaya was with me, she wanted to wait for me instead of staying with bibik downstairs.
After mandi, i went down to make sambal tempe, well bibik dah masak for dinner, but i felt like makan sambal tempe. Yaya dok merengek nak menyusu, hubby tried to calm and soothe her but she was beyond soothing... apa ayat aku nih... lantak ler. Then i noticed that hubby was a bit crossed with me, i know why. Coz i got home late and the kids sibuk merengek for our attention actually. If only i noticed that... (sigh).
The situation will never get better. With the new post i'm holding at office, I had to give extra attention to every details, the responsibility not to mention the expectation is very high. So, this is the challanges that i had to face right now, to balance my job and my family. But it's very hard for me to handle both...
How i wished i was never offered the post
How i wished i can just let go the offer
How i wished it was just a dream
Finally, How i wished i can just be a housewife...